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It's Here!  It's Here!  It's Here!  (the Kindle Version)

12/10/2012

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So, I was going to write about something else... but tonight has been overshadowed.

I almost don't even know what to say.  Some of you have been reading this blog since day one.  Some of you are family (hi Tante Lousie & Noni!), some of you are friends..... and then there are several of you from the blog who *feel* like friends to me.  Perhaps that's silly and lame and sounds like bullshit, but it's true.

It's true.

I started the blog with no real intentions of anything - I just thought it would be a good way for me (and El Capitan) to make sure that the information out there about our sign and us was accurate information.  Then *you* responded with so much.... and so I kept writing.

As I wrote, the blog became more and more personal, raw and open.  I share everything here, but for people who *know* me - that's not a surprise.  I'm an open if you meet me in person... why should the internet be any different?

So, I wrote a book.  It's the one that's pictured right there.

The book is VERY different from the blog... until the last chapter which is written a little more how I write for the blog.  The blog is personal - it's what I do before I finally go to bed.  Sometimes it's a little more raw and unedited that it should be, the book, however, is different.

It's not perfect, I'm sure there will be a few editing flaws, a few things that could have been written smoother, but it's me.  It's all me. 

I'm raw.
I'm flawed.
I'm real.
I have made, and in spite of my best efforts will continue, to make mistakes.
I wanted the book to be like me:  raw, emotional and perhaps a little rough around the edges.

I wanted to write a book that my children will read in 20 years time and hear my voice in their head as they read it - not some super fancied up version of their Mom that didn't make sense. 

I don't think it's going to be some huge best seller.  I don't think it's going to take the world by storm... but I think for the people in my life who want to read, and the people on this blog and elsewhere, it's a I'm proud to say I wrote and one I think they will like.

So,  YOU, wonderful blog readers with whom I have shared so much of the last five months of my life, YOU are the first to find out that you can purchase my book RIGHT NOW on Kindle (if you have one).  We are only waiting on Amazon to update their files to be selling the book in PRINT - THAT IS COMING in a few days.  So hang in there.... but for those of you with a Kindle, you can buy it now by clicking HERE.

ALSO, I wanted to include the first review for my book:

Andrea's review Dec 08, 12  (She gave it FIVE STARS!!!!)
Read in December, 2012
The Scorned Wife: Slightly Bitter Never Broken by Elle Zober is, quite simply, a modern masterpiece.

I love books. I've read books that I love, and books that I hate; books that make me care about the characters and books that leave me apathetic. This story really made me feel something.

It begins with a young and almost penniless Elle casting out from her American home and finding herself in the UK. The reader watches her flourish and grow alongside her career as a Rock Photographer, in what quickly becomes a who's who of name-dropping that gives the reader little fizzles of electric recognition and delight.

Back to America after a marriage, divorce, ups, downs and a near-death experience, we see our protagonist, this wonderful writer, find her future husband who she weds after only three weeks. Elle had her prince, gave birth to her children and found her happy ever after... for a while.

Whilst not the most polished piece of writing I have ever written, this novel is most definitely in my top ten books that evoke deep, heartfelt emotion within you as you are reading. The larger than life character and strength of Elle shouts out from the pages, and truly astonishes you with her attitude to all that happens to her.

This book made me laugh. It made me cry. For a period of quite a few pages, I thought I was going to vomit, the sense of impending doom was conveyed so well. It was absolutely magical. All that I can say, now that I have finished it, is that I am in awe of Elle Zober; of her strength and tenacity, of her love and compassion, of her courage. To go through all the things in life that are detailed in this memoir and come out the other side takes a strong woman. To be able to write about them, and share them with the world - no matter what it may think of you - that takes an amazing woman.

Elle, I salute you. Thank you for writing such a wonderful memoir, and for having the courage to share the ins and outs of your life with us all. You are truly amazing. And to everyone else out there - READ THIS BOOK. Find out for yourself just what an inspiration this lady is. You certainly won't regret it.

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So that's the first review for the book.
I hope you'll like it.  Again - PRINT VERSIONS WILL BE AVAILABLE SOON!  But, for those of you wanting it for your KINDLE - you can click on the photo above or follow the link.

Most of all.... I just want to say thank you.  Thank you for giving me a space to air my thoughts, thanks for your advice and your feedback..... and.... a few of you appear in the book in the final chapter, I hope that's ok.

Mixed feelings tonight.

Oh.... AND BTW - El Capitan gave his *permission* for me to write the book, he knows what went INTO the book, he knows there are pictures and pictures of the kids and everything.  So... yeah. 

I'm off to download my book onto my Kindle now! 
Night!

21 Comments
Alex
12/10/2012 09:12:46 pm

Hi Elle!

Is the book coming out for the IPad too? I can't wait to read it, but I don't have a kindle or a nook.

Congratulations on the book! Woot!

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Elle
12/11/2012 09:14:57 am

It is shortly! I will build a page for the book with links to the various places to buy it! But, yes to the ipad, just not yet. :)

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Alex
12/11/2012 09:14:26 pm

I was actually considering just getting a kindle, since I like instant gratification. ;) But then I paid for tickets to go see family at Christmas and had to face a few realities about my finances and spending...... I'll wait on the IPad version! :)

Jen
12/11/2012 09:35:42 pm

I use the Kindle app for the iPad. I really like have you tried it?

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Jen
12/10/2012 10:26:57 pm

I'm soooooooo happy for you! I just bought my copy. Can't wait to start reading it. You really are an inspiration and encouragement to all! I pray this can be a new start for you. It's time for bigger and better things!! :)

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Taun-Taun
12/10/2012 10:42:37 pm

YAY~ Just downloaded it to my Kindle. Be proud of your accomplishment!

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Mercy
12/10/2012 11:14:25 pm

I love the cover for your book. (You used my favorite colors) Congratulations! I am so happy for you!!! :D I will buy it in Kindle Version today eventhough I still wanted a hard copy so that I could get your autograph for when you become rich and famous.I love the cover for your book. (You used my favorite colors) Congratulations! I am so happy for you!!! :D I will buy it in Kindle Version today even though I still wanted a hard copy so that I could have your autograph for when you become rich and famous!

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Elle
12/11/2012 09:15:37 am

You are in the final chapter :)

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Meredith Rasberry
12/11/2012 12:27:08 am

I bought it! I'm so excited...I love your blog. Keep it going your amazing.

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Shirley link
12/11/2012 12:43:51 am

Congrats!! and Great Cover. Can't wait for the paper version. I am out-of-state, so won't be able to make it to any book signings. Are you going to offer signed copies directly from your website?

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Elle
12/11/2012 09:16:17 am

Hmm.... I hadn't thought of that - but I guess I could. lol
I will get a page up before Friday.

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Natasha
12/11/2012 04:58:39 am

I have been reading your blog for a while, but this is the first time that I have actually left a comment. First I LOVE your blog... you are so honest about your feelings and it is pretty refreshing and I am sure pretty inspiring to others who are going through the same thing. Second- I read a preview of your book on Amazon and I LOVED it so far! I can say I am super disappointed that it isn't available for Nook owners (like me), but I will buy the paperback when it come out... You did an excellent job writing (well at least what I read)....

You are truly an amazing person and you deserve to find happiness... I wish you and your children a good holiday season and I hope for their sake your ex starts acting in their best interest rather than his own... It's so sad to see a grown adult act so selfishly...

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elle
12/11/2012 09:16:56 am

Thank you :)
It *should* be on Nook by next week! :)

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Natasha
12/11/2012 09:58:40 am

YES! I can't wait :) I was reading today and kicking myself for not getting a Kindle (and I love my Nook).... Can't wait to read the whole thing.

emma
12/11/2012 02:04:58 pm

I also want it in print. Red is my fave colour. But I might need to get it on kindle first.

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Rebecca
12/11/2012 05:22:39 pm

I checked your blog first thing this morning (while sitting in a training), and bought the book immediately. I took the survey a while back and said to definitely write a book, that I would read it. It is 1:15 am and I just finished. Wow. I'm not easily this captivated because while reading today I still had to stay at work, pick up 3 kids after, and be mom/wife tonight. I laughed, cried and wanted to let my own temper out throughout reading the book. Thanks for sharing. Through your blog and now your book I am able to heal from my hurts from an ex-husband, with a similar ending. Thanks again and keep it up!

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Elle
12/11/2012 05:41:01 pm

Did you like it? Did you think it was a 'good book' - you know what I mean? You're the first person to have actually READ the entire book aside from the editor and publisher and proof reader. :)
So, I'm keen to hear if you liked it or not.

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Rebecca
12/12/2012 01:47:05 am

I loved it. I was re-reading my post and realized I blanked out,on one sentence. I was really busy yesterday, more than normal, I probably shouldn't have been reading a book during my training, but I knew I wanted to read it. I was trying to relate, in last night's post, that while I love reading I am not one, due to life, to just sit and read a book in one day. I have too much going on, ya know? The book was that captivating. I had already related to you from the blog, but like you've said before, your book writing style is different from your blog writing style. I didn't realize I would be so easily sucked in, I thought I "knew" your story. And I have to tell you, I'm a picky reader, I'm a teacher and without even trying I "proofread" anything that comes in my hand: letters, books, facebook/pinterest posts. I'm NOT one to correct the mistakes and point them out, I think it's just something 10 years of teaching does to you. Anyways, I didn't notice anything that jumped out and screamed "grammatical error" or "doesn't make sense" so even in that aspect it was a well written book. However, I wouldn't care if it was written like chicken scratch. The truth and raw emotion behind your life story draws the reader in and then, how could someone stop reading right in the middle? You can't stop reading and that is how I finished the book in one day.

Mi
12/12/2012 01:24:46 am

Congrats, lady! I've never commented much (maybe once or twice), but I've been reading your blog since the beginning. There were times, in reaction to certain posts, that I have had a novel of my own in my head to write back to you, but I just never got those thoughts organized and out. I can't wait for the paperback copy to come out, or to get a Kindle, whichever comes first :) I will be buying no matter what though.

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Nocti
12/12/2012 06:01:55 am

I can't wait to read the book. I read the preview on amazon, and so far, it's amazing. Very well written, and it just pulls you in. I honestly think that when I get a copy, either on the ipod or hard copy, I'm probably going to sit in a near catatonic state reading until it's finished.

Your style of writing is just awesome. You tell it how it is.. good, bad and ugly. You own up to things, and you seem to try to give an unbiased view on the situation.

I hope you find happiness, Elle. You truly deserve it for what you've been through. You're a strong woman, and I have no doubt in my mind that you'll will survive this and come out even better on the other side.

Just a side thought, but you could totally be one of those motivational speakers. Like.. really. I don't know what that sort of thing pays, because with 2 children, finances are obviously something of a concern, but I bet you could really help a lot of people.

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Don't Stop Believing
12/12/2012 02:11:15 pm

I downloaded it this morning and just finished it now. I laughed, I cried and I applaud you. Nicely written Elle! Looking forward to the second book "Happily Ever After"... your prince & princess will have many adventures to make you smile throughout the years to come :)

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