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Don't F*ck This Guy: Master Cpl. Mathew Wilson

3/6/2013

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Let me be CLEAR, crystal and otherwise:  I would never advocate bullying or *any* kind of discrimination based on someone "health" status.  However, *this* guy needs a Public Service Announcement stapled to his chest.

Last year in Canada, Master Cpl. Mathew Wilson, was charged in Ottawa after military police alleged he knowingly infected six women in Perth, Kingston and Ottawa with herpes from 2004-2009.

One of those women "allegedly" infected in a blog reader.
And... I can assure you she *was* infected  - by him - they were husband and wife at the time.... and he - was cheating. Shocker. :(

Sadly..... this "soldier" just got off because a judge decided (in laymens terms) that he's been publicly punished enough.... of course, the articles fail to mention that MORE than one of these "victims" was married to him.... AND that he sired kids with more than one of them.

All the while - KNOWING he had herpes that he was spreading......
and spreading.....
and spreading......

Really?  
Let me get this straight, for all intensive purposes it seems that soldiers in Canada are taught how to care for and clean their rifle, but not their cocks?
And... soldiers are taught how to properly fire their weapons in battle... but not how to safely blow their load?

I somehow doubt that, very, very much.

Here's why this is *wrong* on a thousand levels:  knowledge.

Master Douche Bag here *KNEW* he had an STD.  
He new it because his own cock blistered.... he has sores and signs and blisters... oh my.
And then he was kind enough to *share* those blisters with women who loved him and trusted him.

He was thoughtful enough to let his drippy dick infect them with Herpes.
F*ck.... I wonder what his big plans for Christmas were...... 
sigh.

*ONE* woman would have been bad enough.  ONE wife, infected and spending her life battling an STD that never, ever goes away..... that would have been a slap on the wrist/shame on you.... punishment.

But.... FIVE YEARS of dropping your infected load on unsuspecting women.
That's just douche baggery of the highest order.
Period.

Women who loved him, who looked in his eyes and thought they felt love pulsing through their veins... little did they knew it wasn't love:  it was herpes.

Women who embraced him and gave themselves - heart, soul and body.... only to have him leave a stain on them.  A$$whole.

Oh... but wah.... he's a solder is PTSD .... let me file that under I COULD CARE LESS.
I frankly think that that statement is a disservice to the THOUSANDS of FINE men and woman who have served their country and done it with INTEGRITY and common f*cking sense.... Master Douche Bag, is *not* one of them.

What happened to honor?
What happened to honesty?
What happened to a soldiers duty to protect?

Apparently.... that doesn't include wrapping your bubbly c*ck in a condom.
sigh.

I'll be honest.... this is sh*t my 5th Grade teacher taught me, there's *no* excuse for this kind of behavior.
NONE.

I know, personally, one of the women who was HARMED, whose world and life and PHYSICAL BODY - were damaged by this man's lies and deceit and disease..... SHE deserves better than some judge deciding that a "public" shaming was "enough punishment".
Bullshit.

She's a kind and thoughtful woman.
She's a loving mother.
She's a good friend.
She thinks of others.... she is GOOD.
She deserved to be loved by her own husband in a true and honest sense.
She was not.
She was harmed by him.
She deserved justice.
She didn't get it.

Shame on those who failed to get it for her.

So.... reader in Canada:  do not f*ck this man.

Readers in general:  educate yourselves.
Many of us are finding ourselves in situations where we find out our husbands have strayed... or we find ourselves back on the dating market:  GET EDUCATED.

The FIRST phone call I made the Monday after I found out El Capitan had had sex with Yoga Girl was to my regular doctor and I had a full STD panel done.
Period.
Better to know than get a lovely, bumpy, blistery surprise later........

You need to be educated for your *own* health, but also for any future partners health.

I, for one, will require any future sex partners to be tested as well.  It's just common f*cking sense.  Honestly.... don't trust someone else with your body.

In the case of the women above - the articles fail to mention that more than one of the women was married to this Douche.... even still.... get educated:  get tested.

Oh... and don't f*ck this guy:  Master Cpl. Mathew Wilson


http://www.ottawacitizen.com/news/Revealing+herpes+legal+obligation+anyone+infected+judge+says/8057674/story.html

http://www.ottawacitizen.com/mobile/news/ottawa/Soldier+spared+criminal+record+infecting+women+with+herpes/8053065/story.html


4 Comments
Charlene
3/11/2013 12:39:39 am

wow!!!! this is awful!! when is it only the man who is responsible to cover his cock? it is a womans responsibility too! if you dont make him wrap it, you are equally to blame!!!! jesus..... The guy who gave me chlamidia when I was 15 isn't to blame- I WAS!!! I didn't make him wear a condom..... sounds like scorned lovers..... The only only one who has any claim is the former wife!!!!

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emma
3/11/2013 06:53:58 pm

well, many were wives actually. and if someone tells you they are clean you believe them. also herpes can not be prevented by condom use.

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Guy
3/12/2013 10:30:41 am

Not only did he get off with nothing more than a slap on the wrist, not even a criminal record, but he had the child porn possession charges dropped against him.

I agree with Charlene, it takes two to tango and protection must be insisted by the woman as well.

Does this mean that he gets to keep his military career with all the great benefits?

Disclaimer:
I've known Mr Wilson for over 20 years and met his current wife and baby, what a pretty lady, sad that she has to go through this, and I am beyond pissed that he's just walking away from child porn possession charges.

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Sophie
11/6/2013 09:15:22 pm

I've personally met Mr. Wilson and something was off right away.
He's a charmer for sure but Gods forbid you see though that charm into the sociopath he really is. Hell hath no fury like a psycho scorned
He once stalked me around a Wal-Mart while I had my newborn son with me, simply because I wouldn't acknowledge him...AFTER he had infected my friend.

I remember when wife #1 (I believe he's on his third now) was struggling with her marriage. She wanted so badly for this to work out and he came home with appoligies and telling her he hadn't slept with anybody else. Love is blind... One life long STI later, turns out, oh yah, I guess those other women DID count as sex.

He doesn't disclose that he has herpes, even in long term relationships/marriages, where trust has been established and then infect the women for the pleasure of bare back/power control. He then tells them that nobody will want them now and they might as well stay...all the while he's #&*%ing around behind their backs.

What Emma said is true, a condom won't prevent the spread of herpies, so immediate culpibility is needed, which he never, ever gives.

He is compleately guilty of physical, emotional and sexual abuse. 100%. This is another case of the boys club and rape culture screaming through.
How many other women will have to suffer because he wasn't brought to justice is now on the courts heads because it apparently isn't Mr. Wilson's fault

He's the Rob Ford of Ottawa sex.

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