I haven't sewn a public scarlet letter to Yoga Girls' chest.... again - she *asked* for a lot of things, but - let's be fair: she didn't ask to be publicly humiliated and while she may (or may not) deserve it.... it isn't the right thing to do.
A few week ago I realized that there was a 'second OTHER' folder on my facebook account. I clicked on it and over a hundred messages that were sent around the time that the sign went viral.... I answered each and every one - embarrassed that I hadn't done it sooner.
Oh.... and then there were the two gems above.
These two tools were *dumb* enough to send me such charming words of kindness... with their OWN photos attached and their full names attached! NEITHER of them is what *I* would consider - handsome. The first guy proudly wore knee-length jean shorts a mullet to Vegas in the 90s..... how old is he now?!?!?! lololol
The first guy also has a business of his own - I wonder how many women in his area - who EMPLOY HIM and PAY HIM their hard earned money..... happen to look like me? He's too good to 'f*ck' on 'old nasty bag' - but I bet you he cashes checks from women who look *exactly* like me alllllll the time.
The second guy - is a younger kid.... but he's nice enough to tag his aunt on hi facebook page... I wonder if she would love to know what a kind and noble soul her nephew is.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion - *everyone*. I have no problem with people saying allllll kinds of nasty and horrible things to me, or about me - really. I'm a big girl (clearly) and I can take it. Sometimes though - I'm just kind of done with it all - and.... if these two Darwinian Geniuses were *dumb* enough to send me NASTY messages with their full names and pictures attached to them.... then I have to assume that they don't mind being the MEN they are and standing behind their words.
For the record, the first guy is *older* than I am.... and I would rather die *alone* having the last time I ever feel a man presence near me be that of the man who was cheating on me - than to let this fat f*ck slop his huge, rotund gut *anywhere* near my 'old and nasty' girl parts.
I'd sooner take up with a collection of barn animals.... at the very least: they would surely have better manners.
In the second place.... why on *earth* do we feel this bizarre need to communicate such kindness to begin with......? Really. What did either of these men gain by sending me these messages? Nothing.
And yet they did it anyway.
I'm not sure if this is the 'right' thing to do.... I've struggled with this for a few months.... however, in light of the season: I just want to share the same 'love' they were so eager to share with me.
Bullies get to be bullies because they hide in secret - they can say whatever they want to people from a place of privacy - and so I had to ask myself why am I continuing to afford them such privacy?
They were man enough to send those messages - is it wrong for me to believe that they wouldn't want the opportunity to stand behind their words? I should think they do.
In fact, being the strong, handsome, young, un-nasty MEN that they are - I should think they would be eager to stand up for what they believe in and be men of their words.
And I for one.... am allllll too willing to help give them that opportunity.
So.... I hope they get *a lot* of love on this Valentine's Day!